LIFE AFTER THE FLESH VESSEL

The numinous and harrowing nature of death dovetails multiple complex feelings. It’s an experience all existing beings experience from a third-hand perspective, then eventually firsthand. And because of its terrifying nature, people naturally seek comfort and answers to their curiosities, often met through various religious beliefs. Death isn’t an unusual or unique experience, but certainly a challenging one.

Through faith, humanity has tethered itself to an idea of what happens next, where life exists beyond the human body. 

Through observances and studies conducted by Science Array and BBC Earth, it’s been proven taxonomic classes beyond humans grieve. Mammals, such as Orcas hold their deceased calves for sometimes weeks, signaling deep grief within their pods. Whereas birds, perhaps the Magpie, will arrange grass aside their deceased companions, almost ritualistic. Insects even, bees for instance carry dead colony members outside the hive — many argue it’s for sanitary purpose, but many believe the behavior is a result of mourning. 

Dr. Jane Goodall researched chimpanzees both enthusiastically and rigorously. Her studies suggest chimpanzees mourn similarly to humans, indicating they might have their own sense of spirituality. The question remains an argument, of what comes next.

There is an estimated ~4,000 religions, which naturally divert historically; through wars and wages, beliefs and purpose. With beneficent, loving, and unforgiving deities. However, an integral purpose is to reach a higher sentience, relief, or for many - nothing. After interviewing various individuals with different religious and cultural backgrounds, the general synopsis garnered is to do better to live better after our passing. Though the foundation is similar, the qualifications for Heaven, Nirvana, Jannah - the tiers have complexities of their own. 

Paris Byron, a Pentecostal Christian has devoted plenty of her life to being a faithful Christian in the image of God. Similarly, Esteban Conde a practicing Catholic has a different life experience but still seeks the same benevolence from his faith and community. Paris believes “we have an individual, unique purpose given from God” which the soul leads. When death arrives, they collectively agree that there is an afterlife, an eternity in Heaven, that Hell is real, and purgatory is argumentative.

This is solely determined by God. 

Whereas from its Abrahamic relative, in Islam many principles overlap however after death souls enter Barzakh, an almost waiting room where judgement is conducted. Thereafter, Sama Arafat states “Allah is kind, forgiving, but you must be obedient and [your] moral conduct as a Muslim matters.” She shared that there are two primary places with multiple tiers in the afterlife, Jannah and Jahannam. Where each have individual dwellings depending on the severities of your sins,

and goodness of your soul. She believes punishment in the afterlife can be temporary, in lieu of eternal. 

On another scale, Ryusei Satō, who has spent nearly fifty years as a practicing Buddhist, has an entirely different perspective on purpose, divinity, and afterlife. “Are you tired? Of the worry you are constantly doing wrong, suppressing the natural rhythms of life?” Mr. Satō believes he has lived previous lives, and expects he might have a few more; considered Samsara. And until he reaches Nirvana (the end of all suffering and rebirth) he intends to live with liberation, courage and kindness. When we die, he believes consciousness continues into something else based on our karma. The Noble Eightfold Path is a framework that he follows, and he believes Buddhism is unique in a universal lens; meaning, it is not a religion exclusive to Buddhists. 

His longtime friend Dheer who associates himself with Hinduism, shares similar core values. Emphasizing “Atmnan” the eternity of the soul. That similarly, we continue to reincarnate until reaching Moksha, liberation from rebirth. He shares that similar to all religions, belief and values are argued over. “There are multiple Lokas, realms almost, that we land based on Karma.” Karma, which determines our next life’s journey, challenges, and circumstances. His is devoted, to both his faith and culture. 

Undoubtedly, faith is a result of nurture, whereas curiosity stems from nature. Living in a spectrum of goodness. It seems many individuals have an incredibly personal perception and journey with their God, Deities, and communities. Death, does not have to be terrifying, and faith can be an incredible extension that leaves people tender-hearted and kind.

No individual can escape its sticky grasp, and though painful and unfortunate, comfort lies within the fabric of faith.

Atheism: The Lack of a Belief

Atheism tends to get a bad rap when compared to other religions, but that's just the thing about atheism: it isn’t a religion at all. The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines atheism as “a lack of belief or a strong disbelief in the existence of a god or any gods”. And it is just that the lack of a belief, or in simpler terms, the lack of a religion.

To a lot of religious people, saying you are an atheist tends to bring about very negative reactions. To some people, they would imagine an atheist as a devil-worshipper who goes out of their way to destroy their relationship with their god. But that isn’t the case in any sense, that disbelief in a god would also mean a disbelief in the devil.

A common misconception of atheists is that, without religion, where are they going to get their morals from, and what is going to stop them from murder? For atheists, those morals come from other places, and they’re able to remain good people. Just like how there are people who do bad things in the name of God, there can be good people who do good just for themselves and the people around them.

In America, there tends to be this assumption of religion on everyone, even though the separation of the church and state is supposed to exist. While countries like China exist with a larger majority of their populations being atheists. There is a way for both religious countries to exist, like the Vatican City, and non-religious countries to exist in tandem, like Sweden or Japan.

There is another connected term that often fits a lot of people, that word being agnostic. It is broadly defined by the Merriam-Webster Dictionary as “one who is not committed to believing in either the existence or the nonexistence of God or any gods”. Being agnostic is a term that isn’t as well-known as atheism, but there are surely a lot more people out there who would personally connect with the word.

Another aspect of being agnostic comes from the viewpoint that the status of a higher power is unknown and will likely stay unknown. To some, there is comfort in not knowing, and there is no desire to dive deeper than what we are living with.

There can be a variety of reasons a person would identify as agnostic or an atheist. Just as people can inherit their religions from their families, people can be born into families without religion. Another pretty common way is when people who inherit religions from their families can start to branch away from that and decide it isn’t for them anymore. Religion can be a very divisive subject, and for some people, there can be a lot of trauma attached to it. Atheism, for some, is putting that past behind them.

A lot of people tend to view atheism as an attack against religion, when that isn’t the reality at all. It is its own concept that is focused on the absence of something. You won’t find atheists gathering in buildings and making plans on how to dismantle global religion. It is just something people are or become, or even no longer identify with.

Growing up religious, not believing in God was something that never would have crossed my mind. But as I grew up in the church, I started to question my relationship with God and religion in general. I eventually came to the conclusion that it just wasn’t for me. When asked about my religion, I usually answer “non-religious”. This term is great for me because, although I don’t feel a personal connection to any god, I do believe in the people who believe. 

That’s what it all boils down to, personal choice, personal faith. Some take solace in their God and their religion, while others find ways without. All ways are completely valid.

God, Guns, and Country

I was born and raised in the south, in a small-ish town in Upstate South Carolina. A place too big to be a true small town, but too small to describe it any other way. If you’re from here or somewhere similar, you know exactly what it’s like. If you’re not, let me paint you a picture.

I grew up with a church around every corner, the same classmates from 1st to 12th grade, surrounded by cows and farmland. My childhood was spent running around barefoot in a cul-de-sac and eating honeysuckles at recess. Whenever I leave home, I find that people have a lot more misconceptions than I thought.

Some say we’re too rigid and beyond help. I met a woman in California who, after learning we were from South Carolina, began to rant about our “regressive state government.” I even had a professor look at me with serious concern and say my state was only getting “worse and worse.”

Others are too idealistic. They imagine romantic depictions of southern belles in flowy ball gowns like Scarlett O’Hara. They think of slow living, traditional family values, and call it God’s country.

My experience has been somewhere in the middle. For example, I’ve absolutely gotten fresh eggs from my friend’s chickens and talked to strangers like I’ve known them for years. But we also have questionable roads and infrastructure, (why are there no streetlights?) and a lot of people that are resistant to change of any kind.

Like anywhere, the south is full of different people and walks of life. We don’t agree on everything, but it always seemed like loving God and loving America were the two most important things you could do. This lyric from “Small Town Southern Man,” by Alan Jackson, sums it up perfectly: “And he bowed His head to Jesus / And he stood For Uncle Sam.” 

My whole life, it seemed like that‘s what everyone did: love God and love America. As I’ve seen more of the world outside my home, the more I wonder what people do when God and America contradict each other.

A few months ago I was driving home and saw a house with a sign that said God, Guns, & Country. Kind of like “live, laugh, love.”

My first thought was, at least they put God first! My second thought was, what does God have to do with guns?

For me, it was so strange to see guns right next to God. I don’t think they have anything to do with each other, but just a few miles away someone thought it was important enough to put up a sign for the world to see. It made me think about how easy it is to believe in something when you attach God to it.

I think that’s why Christianity and the south are so intertwined. It’s hard to separate church and state in the minds of people who have learned that you can’t have one without the other.

Take the name “God’s country.” It implies a place that belongs to God, where He is always present. Essentially Heaven on Earth. To some, the south is just that. A place of freedom where Christianity is the norm.

But the same place one person calls God’s country actually represents injustice and unspeakable violence to someone else. In their eyes God couldn’t possibly be present in such a place.

It doesn't matter what side you’re on, it’s nearly impossible to go anywhere in the south without being reminded of its terrible history. I remember driving to the beach and the GPS took me to a road called Plantation Drive! I wasn’t seeking it out, I was just on vacation!

I was taught that God loves everyone, but the south hasn’t always done that. It wasn’t long ago when the Bill of Rights wasn’t applied to everyone here, so it’s hard to say that everything we do has God’s constant stamp of approval. 

How can this be God’s country when it contradicts what I was taught about God?

There is nothing wrong with being proud of where you’re from, and there is certainly nothing wrong with thanking God for it. But I think there should always be room for nuance. Nothing is entirely black and white. 

The south is not fully good or bad. It is simply a region of man-made borders with as many flaws as it has merits, there’s beautiful moments in our history and dark moments.

The same goes for Christianity. It has been used as a tool for control in one way or another, not just in the south, and not just in America. But it can also produce good. My journey with my faith has been very freeing, but at the same time, I’ve had plenty of hard times. (And a lot of those happened in church!)

My faith has influenced me in so many ways, from how I see the world to how I treat others. Still, I know my way of life isn’t the only one, and I don’t think it’s the only one God cares about.

From what I grew up hearing, it seemed like God was always on “our” side, that this was God’s country and if you didn’t like it you could leave! But I don’t think it’s that cut and dry.

I have no problem with someone who believes in God, owns a gun, or loves America. But I do have a problem when someone believes God only represents their country and their way of life. It’s a slippery slope to Christian nationalism when people act as if America can do no wrong and that God co-signed the Constitution Himself.

There’s an episode of The Twilight Zone (1959-1964) called “Still Valley,” that demonstrates my point.

In the episode a Confederate soldier comes to a town occupied by Union soldiers. When he sneaks in, he sees they are all completely frozen, unable to move or talk. He meets an old man who says they can’t move because he cast a spell on them using a book of witchcraft. But the spells don’t work unless the caster pledges allegiance to Satan and denounces the name of God. Then the old man chooses the soldier as the next person to have control over the book. 

At first, he plans to use the book to defeat the Union army, and the other Confederate soldiers agree with him eager for a leg up in the war. But when he realized he would have to denounce God, he refused to do it. 

He couldn’t denounce the name of God but was totally willing to fight and die for states’ right to own slaves. Which obviously contradicts that same God.

I had an epiphany watching that episode because it’s the perfect picture of what happens when you don’t evaluate your beliefs but still claim that God is on your side and no one else’s. You will be able to justify anything because you’re using God for your own cause, even the most unjust of causes.

Our laws haven’t always reflected the standards set in the Bible, and mixing the two requires that legality determines what Christians believe, not what the Bible actually says. And we all know just because something is legal doesn’t mean God is behind it.

I think it’s dangerous to blindly idolize the South and use Christianity to justify it. It’s a slippery slope to Christian nationalism, which merges the Bible and the Constitution into one belief that props up certain people over others, and claims that God approves.

I think the beauty of the South is hidden behind the hypocrisy of what we say and what we do. But I’m proud of my home and I haven’t given up on it. 

I hope one day people will see the South the way I do: not completely perfect, but not hopeless either.